What You Need is Not Simply Their Hands

When an organization views its purpose as a commitment they are working toward, its impact can be far-reaching both internally and externally. A successful implementation process requires a purpose-based business strategy where the proposed shared values are made explicit.

An organization’s purpose statement clearly demonstrates what it stands for. It should not be a branding exercise, nor should it be intended to capture more market share. It is about the direction that orients an entire community of people toward an aspired future by undertaking a period of authentic discovery modeled on the organization’s values.

Employees need to understand what the company’s purpose means for them and how it connects with the business strategy. They need to explain it in their own words without changing the meaning. When employees feel integral to this experience, there is alignment with the organization’s purpose. If not, they will experience heightened stress or other well-being concerns and likely leave the organization.

Leaders who demonstrate curiosity to listen.

Organizations that have a deep sense of purpose and have achieved alignment with their employees’ purpose have a more engaged workforce that is whole-heartedly and fully involved.

❝ [Organizations] are truly made up of people.
So, if you want people to be fully engaged, really committed
… what you need is not simply their hands …
… but their head, heart, and hands …
It takes a commitment, usually to a shared mission and this thought
of a compelling vision that they’re looking toward.❞  ~ Shundrawn

Without good communication and implementation, an organization’s purpose will ring hollow. Communication is vital, linking the organization’s internal identity, actions, and stakeholders to its external identity, actions, and stakeholders.  Listening for actual or potential value alignment with colleagues allows them to feel seen and heard, which are different skills than those required for a tactical or strategic meeting.

Creating a safe enough space for colleagues to speak up and reinforce the organization’s values is key. Building these psychologically safe teams goes hand in hand with creating positive, ethical, and purposeful environments. As leaders, understanding what your colleagues are really all about is key to curating a purpose-driven organization that effectively engages all employees.

Coleman states, “corporate purpose is deeply connected to the ability of individuals to achieve greater meaning and engagement in the organizations in which they work. And for leaders who care about the well-being of their employees, and individuals who want to thrive at work, there is little more important than that.”

The happy-side benefit of aligned purpose is a flourishing, engaged workforce that knows what their organization stands for and supports it.  This is deeper than the messages listed on your website. It means prioritizing and following through with practices that willfully interrogate the actions and behaviors which support the stated values and tweaks flawed or outdated practices that no longer serve the organization. Purpose makes a difference in companies only when it changes how people operate.

How is your organization living its purpose?

I recently learned about Tony’s Chocolonely vision and was moved by its commitment to producing 100% exploitation-free chocolate. While your organization might not be in the chocolate business, its purpose can be equally dynamic, guiding internal and external stakeholders’ daily actions. This example is provided for your consideration as your think about your purpose statement.


This is a beautiful meditative read that I will revisit many times! Rick Rubin shares 78 thoughts in The Creative Act: A way of being, stating that being creative is a fundamental aspect of being human. We exist in a creative universe. A mysterious realm beyond our understanding in a society that wants to make meaning out of everything.

Being in the world and appreciating the wisdom of nature when it is noticed, awakens our creative nature. Our creative energy. Rubin inspires the reader to lean into their awareness of the multiple options available to them and become attuned to their intuitive knowing.

At the onset of the book, he states that nothing written here is known to be true … and each of the thoughts shared is an invitation for further inquiry, a zooming out or in for a new way of being. To create is about playing to play. It is about innovating and self-expression. 

How are you creating an environment where you’re free to express what you’re afraid to create?

Book A Discovery Session

A discovery session is largely influenced by a kaizen process, a philosophy based on the concept that change for the better is fostered through small modifications that create improvements. The session is centered on learning about one another, including your values, goals, and processes. 

The discussion will help determine our chemistry match and how collaborating will add value for you. There will be an opportunity to understand your needs and what is top of mind for you, especially what it is that you wish to improve upon. This is an opportunity for us to co-create a win-win partnership.

Some discovery session questions are:

  • What is your biggest challenge as it relates to ______?
  • How are you feeling about this challenge? 
  • What about solving the challenge is most important to you? 
  • How will you benefit from finding a solution to this challenge?

To schedule your no-obligation appointment, email novelette@betacoachingconsulting.com or visit our calendar to book an available time.

Living Our Values Everyday 

I have been reflecting on how I show up for my needs and give them the same attention I would if talking with a client. Here I am referring to what Stephen Porges defines as “one of our inherent needs to be attuned with — “well met” — a neural expectancy. Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs is a framework for how human needs are categorized and expressed, which was formulated after he observed the Canadian Blackfoot. They believed that self-actualization is attained by being fully human and serves as their community foundation. So, I ask, what does it mean to be fully human? At the core of being human is how we meet our needs both individually and communally.

It has occurred to me that my unspoken expectations and the internalization of an external narrative can short-circuit being “well met.” I see the challenges behind those who might operate unconsciously by the Golden Rule “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.” What’s missing is the nuances that we might want to be treated individually. Whereas the Platinum Rule “do unto others, wherever possible, as they would want to be done to them.” centers on the individual’s need.

Even when needs are expressed, they are not guaranteed to be met. So, how do we manage our expectations? There’s no simple answer, and I invite you to reflect on this with me. One way to start is by utilizing the Needs Constellation. Find a quiet spot, then answer the questions offered in this article to learn more about yourself.

  • What are your top needs during this season of your life or at this moment in your organization?
  • What makes these needs important to you? What do you value?
  • How will your behavior change or stay the same to align with your values and priorities?
  • How will you know when your needs have been met?

The more we attune to our feelings and the needs behind our words, the less intimidating it is to express them. This can be empowering and support our core values. It is both an expression of vulnerability and courage to go below the surface when authentically expressing ourselves in relationships. This touches on our humanity.

Even with clarity of our intent and expressed needs, they may be heard as a demand, which intensifies based on positional power. Yet, we should not undermine our personal power, which is self-sourced and is the only power that can transfer from context to context.

Since we do not fundamentally separate who we are as individuals from how we are in our professional lives, many of our core needs, such as belonging, mastery, and purpose, will show up in the workplace. Team performance and team members’ feelings are largely bound to colleagues’ needs, and how their interpersonal relationships manifest in the group process.

In an atmosphere of psychological safety, an organization cherishes open, honest dialogues, respects the needs of diverse team members, and asks contributors what they need to be successful in their role and how leaders can support their growth. A key to unlocking employee engagement is the leaders’ understanding of their talents’ needs and how to fulfill them, first by asking them, then by ensuring a work environment that is safe enough and offers meaningful work, clearly stating objectives while offering timely feedback, and by demonstrating the value of work-life integration. When leaders prioritize their talents’ needs, employee retention, motivation, and engagement will positively impact the organization, while affirming the individual’s agency.

Well-being is a central strategy ensuring that we each contribute our best, which includes navigating our many challenges while negotiating our needs. The combination of speaking authentically and listening deeply is a key path to becoming a better-connected society. This is done in community — communal mutuality — through the promotion of inclusive well-being. Identifying and articulating our needs is how we can live in harmony with our values, contributing greatly to our well-being and our societal well-being. Now, how will you feel when your needs are met?

James Baldwin writes, “Writers are extremely important people in a country, whether or not the country knows it. The Multiple truths about a people are revealed by that people’s artists.” With the slower pace and longer daylight of summer, I find sitting under a tree reading after work an absolute joy. Sharing with you a synopsis of the books read this summer, and I invite you to share your favorite books from your summer’s read list. 

Book A Discovery Session

A discovery session is largely influenced by a kaizen process, which is a philosophy based on the concept to change for the better through small modifications creating improvements. The session is centered on learning about one another including values, goals, and processes. 

The discussion will help determine our chemistry match and how collaborating will add value for you. There will be an opportunity to understand your needs and what is top of mind for you, especially what is it that you wish to improve upon. This is an opportunity for us to co-create a win-win partnership.

Some discovery session questions are:

  • What is your biggest challenge as it relates to ______?
  • How are you feeling about this challenge? 
  • What about solving the challenge is most important to you? 
  • How will you benefit from finding a solution to this challenge?

To schedule your no obligation appointment, email novelette@betacoachingconsulting.com or visit our calendar to book an available time.

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